It's inevitable, folks—us single mamas are going to start dating again. This time, let's go in with some sage advice from other single parents who've dated with success. Parenting is challenging enough.
There are approximately 10 million single moms in the United Stateswhich means that the odds are pretty good that at least some of them are looking for love. Not all of them, of course, but the ones who are often have some hard and fast rules for dating that are a little different than from before they had kids. And they have to be!
A friend of mine and I were recently doing what we do: comparing our lists of garbage dating trends. Some single dads may have experienced a few of these, too. Cougar is another term that needs to go.
I am a single mother. And while I love being a mother, the single part is definitely a challenge. I've spent the last four years adjusting to the single parent side of my divorce, but I haven't done much to address the single woman side of post-divorce life. I'm hoping to change all that, but the mere thought of entering the dating world in earnest is scary as can be.
Everyone is under the impression that the hardest thing about dating when you're a single mom is ultimately scheduling. You have to arrange for your kid s to be taken care of — whether that's by a family member, a co-parent, or someone you're paying — anytime you want to so much as grab a quick drink with another person. And to be fair, that stuff can be a pain in the ass, but every part of being a mom requires coordination to a degree that seems super-human to non-parents.
For five years, I was a single mother with two boys. And even though I was lucky enough to have a steady guy a single dad in the picture, questions came up all the time. Was it okay for all of us to sleep over at one of our houses?
Single moms have a lot going on, but that doesn't mean they can't handle dating and romance. Whether you're a single mom looking to get back out into the dating pool, or someone who is trying to find the right way to ask out a single mom, these expert tips will make post-divorce dating life easier — on you, and your kids. It's hard to carve out the time and mental space for dating, but thinking it through might help you achieve clarity.
Tags: datingmomsingle parent. I would imagine that everyone has some sort of reaction to that word. To some, the word evokes memories of romantic moments with a significant other.